The Squid and the Whale

PHD in litterature intellectuals as parents. Marriage falls apart and secrets begin to reveal. Oldest son is groomed by his father to be like his father which is very annoying to view. The father's ego has no back-up and finally the son realizes this. The mother's affairs with "philistine's" frustrates her ex husband, and he falls under the spell of one of his students who moves in with him and his sons. Sexuality is all over this filmin different ways. The youngest son smears the leftovers from his masturbation over the school. The oldest son dumps his cute girlfriend because he thinks he can "do better". This is of course followed by regret. How will all this mess end?

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